Hey Y'all, it's me Tameko

aka The Cocoa Butter Mama. I'm so thrilled you're here!

Since 2015 I've been trying to build a brand. It started with products but I realized that wouldn't hardly cover EVERYTHING I had set out to create. So I kept going. I double certified as a doula. Side hustled odd jobs. Sold products. Scaled up...then had life happen. Longform breaks ensue. Violins play. I thought that was it.

Fast Forward to a completely new life! One where I'm now a black millennial stay home wife and mother of 2. I got married and had my first baby at the age of 36 and welcomed my second at 38. I've embraced this new life path and realized I no longer want to push products. I want to connect and I want to share way more stuff with ya'll. I love to be a super frugal and super fly girl...also known as "luxuary adjacent" so sharing accessible finds from mom hacks to self care must haves is sort of my thing. Honest Motherhood, Honest Marriage & Honest Black Girl Experiences will also be heavily documented and I'm going to have a ball sharing it all!

Let's collab!