Hey Y'all, it's me Tameko

aka The Cocoa Butter Mama.

I'm so thrilled you're here!

Since 2015 I've been trying to build a brand. It started with products, but I realized that wouldn't hardly cover EVERYTHING I had set out to create. So, I kept going. I double certified as a doula. Side hustled odd jobs. Sold products. Scaled up...then had life happen. Longform breaks ensue. Violins play. I thought that was it.

Fast Forward to a completely new life! One where I'm now a black millennial stay home wife and mother of 2. I got married and had my first baby at the age of 36 and welcomed my second at 38. I've embraced this new life path and realized I no longer want to push products. I want to connect, and I want to share way more stuff with ya'll. I love to be a super frugal and super fly girl...also known as "luxury adjacent" so sharing accessible finds from mom hacks to self-care must haves is sort of my thing. Honest Motherhood, Honest Marriage & Honest Black Girl Experiences will also be heavily documented and I'm going to have a ball sharing it all!

Let's collab!